Another sad day
First, my thoughts, prayers and empathy go out to the families, friends and co-workers of these guys. September 11th of last year I lost my best friend in a helicopter crash near Sarasota Florida, so I have a pretty good idea what emotions these folks are dealing with and it ain't much fun.
Yesterday, I was walking down the street toting my camera when the producer I was with said, "My husband just texted me that the ABC station in Houston just had a helicopter crash." The camera I was carrying belonged to my buddy - I have it because he died, 13 months ago, in a helicopter crash. That made things real pretty quick.
I haven't seen the footage of this crash, but if I was involved, I would want to see it. Mark, my friend who died would have wanted to see it. His dad called me the morning after his accident to tell me that there was video of the 3 people on his ill-fated helicopter being transported to the ambulance - He was glad to see that and wanted me to know it was there. If there was video of his crash, I would go over it frame by frame - what happened?!? I've read every article I can find, watched every video clip and press conference and I know that Mark's family has too, so I don't think showing the crash is disrespectful at all - they want answers. While the video my not help much - it's another piece of the puzzle. If they are too sensitive to it, my guess is they know where the power button is. My station ran this VO when Mark died:
http://www.wral.com/news/national_world/national/video/1803837/
I cry every time I see it. I have tears in my eyes right now. Should they not have done that story because it makes friends and family emotional? No they went with the information they had - in this case pictures of our friend.
I know I'm rambling and Lenslinger hasn't written a blog like this for me to steal, but long story short: it hurts to lose a friend, and I want all the information I can get about the accident so maybe we can learn how to prevent it from happening again. It's not going to bring anybody back, but being in news, dissecting all of the information is one way I cope. Everybody's different. I miss Mark a bunch, and I'm sure there are folks in TX that are starting down the hard road of loss. Remember them fondly. God bless. - John